Phoebe's new camera

Phoebe recieved a camera for her fifth birthday. She has been busy clicking away since then. These are pictures from her level with her view of our life. More will come. Captions are from her own words. We have a photographer on our hands.

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Grit, Growth, and Praise

Have you ever heard of the word "grit"? I'm not talking about gritty stuff at the bottom of a tub, nor am I referencing a kind of cornmeal porridge from a bowl. Nope, this is the kind of stuff that gets one through a task when the going gets tough or there is a need for extra effort and perseverance. As parents, we often need grit to get us through the finish line of raising our kids, but this trait can be valuable to your children as they learn from failures and grow. Grit also helps children work on goals and stick to them. The applications are endless. Psychologists have studied this in children. Intensity is different than grit. Dr. Angela Duckworth, author and psychologist, defines grit this way: You may recognize how grit has helped you as a parent. Maybe you even see it in your children already. Grit and a growth mindset go hand in hand. This graphic shows a visual of the comparison of fixed vs. growth mindset. Learning about mindset dispels ideas that children/a...

A New Kind of "IM" ing : Intimacy, Money, and Media

If you ask a child what an IM is, they can usually tell you. Instant messages are part of a culture where things come immediately. Kids may be learning that intimacy happens in a one-hour show, money can be expected to be made without hard work and sacrifice, and media is accessible and a massive part of daily living. The changes in the next generation and their access and understanding call for vigilant and effortful parenting. Kids will get messages and maybe the messages parents don't want. Let's talk about ways parents can talk to their children about the topics of media, money, and intimacy. Let's talk about media. With all the conveniences of connecting to others quickly, interactive games, and new technologies, there is a fast-growing culture lacking personal connection, becoming game obsessed, and technology invading daily life. While many enjoy the conveniences that technology brings, the media is pervasive, and things that even five years ago we...

Parenting with a "Pyramid"

Children learn shapes at an early age. Part of developmental learning for even a baby includes learning to distinguish differences in shapes (Ginsberg). They learn to know who mom and dad are by subtle differences in shape, and texture. Parents may recall sitting with a toddler helping them understand how the yellow triangle shape fits into the triangle opening of a plastic round ball toy. The delight and glee that comes from getting things to fit correctly can be felt by both parent and child. The way we interact and teach our children can become more complicated with age, activities, and development. It starts to become challenging to teach and correct children. A simple kiss after a scraped knee isn't as simple as the kind of pain and scrapes a child may experience with age. This brings up questions for most parents about what to do when there is a problem. "What should I do, now that something has gone wrong?" (Arbinger Institute) Many parents, ...

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